How to stay connected while having kids…

How to stay connected while having kids…

Now that I’m divorced I much better understand the impact of having children on a relationship. Having kids around will, understandably, automatically take away the attention from each other. There is a different energy use because of the focus on the kids, having less time to spend on your own wants and needs. I also see that the advice to ‘spend more time together as a couple’ is definitely a good one, but is not easy to do and definitely not the best solution when you’ve been drifting apart for a long time already.